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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

14.06.2025 03:03

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

It was going to be , some day.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

How can I get my ex-husband to love me again?

(And it was in our own minds.)

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

What are some good inspirational movies?

And who doesn’t know suffering?

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

My family never makes their pension either.

What is the funniest joke you've been told that you still think about to this day?

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Why would Joseph Smith say that polygamy was God's law?

All the time i was locked up.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

What are the best examples of reverse psychology?

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Why is social media so anti-fee speech, and have they become total BS?

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

How do I stop having work crushes because I only keep getting disappointed almost every day as I keep seeing they don’t like me back and won’t ever ask me out?

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

So, i spoilt her more .

I have no regrets .

What's an underrated/unknown novel or series that you think deserves more attention?

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

How does growing up in chaos affect a child as they become an adult?

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?

Ive learnt so much.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

He knew the spot.

I could never make a relationship work though!

What is the STAR interview method?

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

If you caught a shoplifter at your yard sale, how would you handle it?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Why did i forgive my father ?

The only rule us 5 kids had .

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I was very sick at this time too.

She was in good health!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I write beautiful poetry .

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

I said to her

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

When she asked me how she looked .

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

What did i know ?

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Comes on , in middle age.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I couldn’t, believe it.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I was seconnd youngest,

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Im still living with it.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

But, we were locked up after school.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I never cut or harmed myself..

My life is so biszare .

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

But it wasn’t much.

She loved him until the end.

This is soul school!.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

So whats the point in blame.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I think the readers, may guess!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

As i do to all so called friends.?

She married twice! .

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Put me off passion for life!!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

She found it foreign!.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I was 9 years of age.

I don,t even have a pension.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I waited trembling.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

She wouldn,t have been !

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

He resisted the act ,that day.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Would this be the day?

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I was scared of men, in general

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

We all went to grammer schools

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I will be 64.

Especially a lifetime of it.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

One cannot live in the past .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

And i lived it daily.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

We were not on the streets..

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Who then, do I blame.?

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.